It’s Friday night and you are sitting home all alone watching The Notebook for the 4th time this month. You slowly  and sadly dig into your bowl of Rocky Road ice cream, as the tissues lay near by. You imagine what it would be like to be in the arms of either Ryan Gosling or Rachel McAdams. As they make out in the rain; you begin to wonder,” why don’t I have someone like that in my life? Why can’t someone come and sweep me off of my feet?”  Quite simply, you’ve got to get off your butt and onto your feet, before someone can sweep you off of them! Stop waiting around and start taking action! Are you seriously sitting around waiting for the person of your dreams to knock on your door? Stop waiting around and start creating your own dreams. I have clients come to me all the time and tell me that they want to find the person of their dreams. The first thing I help them understand is that the only thing they can focus on is themselves. The truth is that we cannot change other people, the dating game, or anything else. We can only change ourselves. So its time to make some changes in order to attract the person of your dreams into your life. Here are 7 ways to become the best person that you can be and attract the person of your dreams: Decide What You Want in a Mate If you don’t know what you want, how in the world are you going to know when you find it? Have you ever gone to the grocery store without a list? Generally it takes far more time to shop without a list. The same way if you don’t have a list …